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Perimenopause & Menopause: What's Actually Happening in Your Body

Understanding Menopause

Menopause is officially defined as the point when you've gone 12 consecutive months without a period — but the journey there often begins years earlier. That transition period is called perimenopause, and it can start in your early 40s (sometimes late 30s), lasting anywhere from a few years to a decade.

Perimenopause & Menopause: What's Actually Happening in Your Body

During perimenopause, estrogen and progesterone levels begin to fluctuate unpredictably, triggering a wide range of symptoms even while periods continue. Once periods stop entirely, you've reached menopause — and the symptoms don't necessarily stop there. The years following menopause are referred to as postmenopause, a stage that carries its own important health considerations.

What Drives the Symptoms?

Estrogen and progesterone are not just reproductive hormones — they are active in virtually every system in the body, including the brain, heart, bones, joints, skin, and bladder. As their levels shift and ultimately decline, the effects are felt widely and differently by every woman. This is why the menopause experience is so varied.

Common Perimenopause Symptoms

Vasomotor symptoms

  • Hot flashes and night sweats

  • Heart palpitations

Neurological and mood symptoms

  • Mood changes and irritability

  • Anxiety and depression

  • Brain fog and difficulty concentrating

  • Sleep disruption and insomnia

Physical symptoms

  • Joint pain and muscle aches

  • Fatigue

  • Weight changes and metabolic shifts

  • Headaches

Genitourinary symptoms

  • Vaginal dryness and discomfort

  • Changes in libido

  • Urinary urgency or frequency

Menstrual changes (perimenopause)

  • Irregular periods

  • Heavier or longer periods

Every Woman's Experience Is Different

Some women sail through with minimal disruption. Others find their symptoms significantly impact their work, relationships, sleep, and sense of self. Both experiences are valid — and wherever you fall on that spectrum, you deserve care that takes your experience seriously and helps you understand what is happening in your body.